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Bundy ranch militia (2014)

wonder if i know anyone here

this is the post i have been waiting for

Lot of saigas though, pretty rad

Mexican Self Defense Groups Refuse to Register and/or Turn Over Their Weapons to Government

In recent months it seems that the vigilante groups of Mexico, which call themselves self defense groups, have been the only effective method for combatting the violent and well-armed drug cartels.

Back in January, the Mexican government announced a plan that would see the groups made more legitimate and bring them under the control of the army. However, as one of the stipulations for that, the groups must turn in their weapons which are illegal under Mexican law and register their other weapons.

However, that idea hasn’t really gone over too well with the self defense groups, who have found success fighting the violent cartels using heavy weapons such as machine guns and grenade launchers. These weapons were likely taken from the cartels themselves.

With very little cooperation over the last few months, the Mexican government has set one final deadline of May 11 for the groups to turn in/register their weapons.

According to Yahoo News,

Vigilante spokesman Estanislao Beltran said the self-defense forces would not turn in their guns by the May deadline, but were open to joining some of the government forces. “Nobody is going to disarm,” Beltran said in a telephone interview.

Vigilante leader Jose Manuel Mireles told local media that under the agreement reached Monday with federal authorities, the vigilantes would turn in their heaviest weapons, like grenade launchers and machine guns, but would keep — but not carry — guns such as assault rifles, though those too are prohibited for civilian use under Mexican law.

Mireles and Beltran said the vigilantes have demanded the release of members arrested earlier for weapons possession, but the government statement said the agreement only promised to transfer those arrested on such charges to a jail closer to their homes in Michoacan. Many are being held at prisons as far away as the Gulf coast.

The Mexican government is concerned that some members of the group might be using the group’s authority for their own, criminal gains.

(Source: basedheisenberg)

No one is taller than the last man standing

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Asking for Sex: What Do You Do When the Guy Says No?
———————————————
#TrueStory: chalk it up to #VenusRetrograde but last month saw exes coming out the woodworks. I had a chance to have dinner and clear the air with one that I really liked.  After a lovely dinner and good conversation (not to mention an extended drought), I asked if he’d like to accompany me back to my room.
Surprise of surprises: he declined. Exasperated (and horny) I asked “Why?” Lo and behold, he flipped the gender script and told me some version of: “I’m happy to have you back in my life. I don’t want to move too prematurely because we are rebuilding our relationship.” Riiiiight. What I wanted to know is what our “relationship” had to do with the sex that I needed to have right then and there.
For that there were no answers.…
But what I can tell you is this: Getting my courage up to ask a partner that I trust for the sex that I wanted only to be turned down left me feeling hella disempowered.
As feminists one of the major tenets of hetero-sex positivity discourse is making women feel empowered to ask for what we want, to know that our needs and desires matter. Back in the day, some of the original pro-sex Hip Hop Feminists, TLC said, “yo, if I need it in the morning or the middle of the night, I ain’t too proud to beg”…
Now that women are prioritizing sexual pleasure, men are changing the rules. They are recognizing that sexual performance can decline with age just like beauty.
But frankly, strictly speaking from my own experience, I think that men say no as a way to regain power.
 I have a strong personality, I’m outspoken, and smart. Whatever the fuck Steve Harvey says, I know some brothers have found it intimidating. Denying sex becomes an easy way for men to let you know who’s boss.
Of late, I’ve had more than a few homegirls tell me about the negative reactions that they have gotten from men they were casually involved with, when they tried to prioritize sex in the interaction. Apparently, even when these brothers weren’t all that interested in a relationship, they took it as a serious blow to the ego, to find out that sisters just wanted to engage them for their bodies and sexual talents.
And in the classic fashion of those with privilege, they played the victim, changed the rules, and refused to give the thing they had the power to give. In this case, sex.

wat
WAT.
 
Apparently, NO MEANS NO UNLESS YOU’RE A MAN, THEN YOU ARE DISEMPOWERING ME WHEN I WANT SEX.

 *presses pause*
DID I READ THIS CORRECTLY??
I’m pretty dumbfounded. I almost think this is a joke?
 WAT

because all men are apparently sex machines. all they want is sex. if they deny it, that obviously means they’re up to something.
good lord.
 “Denying sex becomes an easy way for men to let you know who’s boss.”
wow lol

Holy shit it’s like a pile of the reverse of everything spewed by PUA’s, and it’s no less disgusting coming from the other side 8|How hard is it to say ‘okay’ when they say no

this post is old but still makes me shake my head.

"What to do when he says no?"Something else other than sex, obvs?

The last therapist I had seriously told me that when a man says no to a woman it is often away to attempt to control her, the way she feels about herself and her body, and to control her sexuality. As of right now, I can only find non-peer reviewed stuff about it. (Again, I know it is from About.com)
http://divorcesupport.about.com/od/abusiverelationships/a/pa_sex.htm
Apparently the author Scott Wetzler claims that “passive-aggressive” men will use sex as a weapon both to control his spouse and to hide his inadequacies.  While the book may actually be a good book (FOR THOSE IN EMOTIONALLY ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS), it is easy (at least for me) to see how people can take the thoughts in it and make it about ALL men instead of men who are emotionally abusive.  It is disgusting to me that people would take something that is a real problem and make it into something to “prove” men are always trying to subjugate women.  In addition to perpetuating the myth that men only want a connection based on sex and when they don’t there is something wrong with them.  Iam sure Wetzler is not the only one who talks about the behaviors of emotionally abusive men but I am not willing to look it up.  I would hope that he wouldn’t want his research to be used to be applied to the behavior of every man every where.

Well fuck, I’m a dick-brained sex addict by definition and if I happen to not be horny then that means I’m a power-tripping abuser as well…
What the actual fuck
Maybe he just didn’t want to fuck you.
Check your feminism OP, I think it’s fucking broken. Women’s rights don’t mean women’s entitlement to other people’s bodies.
Idiot.

and these bitches have the nerve to screech about rape culture and male entitlement 

poppypicklesticks:

clementmoraschi:

feignedaffections:

chakrabot:

opus-pocus:

bronzebasilisk:

hootaloo:

diarrheaworldstarhiphop:

Asking for Sex: What Do You Do When the Guy Says No?

———————————————

#TrueStory: chalk it up to #VenusRetrograde but last month saw exes coming out the woodworks. I had a chance to have dinner and clear the air with one that I really liked.  After a lovely dinner and good conversation (not to mention an extended drought), I asked if he’d like to accompany me back to my room.

Surprise of surprises: he declined. Exasperated (and horny) I asked “Why?” Lo and behold, he flipped the gender script and told me some version of: “I’m happy to have you back in my life. I don’t want to move too prematurely because we are rebuilding our relationship.” Riiiiight. What I wanted to know is what our “relationship” had to do with the sex that I needed to have right then and there.

For that there were no answers.



But what I can tell you is this: Getting my courage up to ask a partner that I trust for the sex that I wanted only to be turned down left me feeling hella disempowered.

As feminists one of the major tenets of hetero-sex positivity discourse is making women feel empowered to ask for what we want, to know that our needs and desires matter. Back in the day, some of the original pro-sex Hip Hop Feminists, TLC said, “yo, if I need it in the morning or the middle of the night, I ain’t too proud to beg”



Now that women are prioritizing sexual pleasure, men are changing the rules. They are recognizing that sexual performance can decline with age just like beauty.

But frankly, strictly speaking from my own experience, I think that men say no as a way to regain power.

 I have a strong personality, I’m outspoken, and smart. Whatever the fuck Steve Harvey says, I know some brothers have found it intimidating. Denying sex becomes an easy way for men to let you know who’s boss.

Of late, I’ve had more than a few homegirls tell me about the negative reactions that they have gotten from men they were casually involved with, when they tried to prioritize sex in the interaction. Apparently, even when these brothers weren’t all that interested in a relationship, they took it as a serious blow to the ego, to find out that sisters just wanted to engage them for their bodies and sexual talents.

And in the classic fashion of those with privilege, they played the victim, changed the rules, and refused to give the thing they had the power to give. In this case, sex.

wat

WAT.

 

Apparently, NO MEANS NO UNLESS YOU’RE A MAN, THEN YOU ARE DISEMPOWERING ME WHEN I WANT SEX.

image

 *presses pause*

DID I READ THIS CORRECTLY??

I’m pretty dumbfounded. I almost think this is a joke?

WAT

because all men are apparently sex machines. all they want is sex. if they deny it, that obviously means they’re up to something.

good lord.

“Denying sex becomes an easy way for men to let you know who’s boss.”

wow lol

Holy shit it’s like a pile of the reverse of everything spewed by PUA’s, and it’s no less disgusting coming from the other side 8|

How hard is it to say ‘okay’ when they say no

this post is old but still makes me shake my head.

"What to do when he says no?"

Something else other than sex, obvs?

The last therapist I had seriously told me that when a man says no to a woman it is often away to attempt to control her, the way she feels about herself and her body, and to control her sexuality. As of right now, I can only find non-peer reviewed stuff about it. (Again, I know it is from About.com)

http://divorcesupport.about.com/od/abusiverelationships/a/pa_sex.htm

Apparently the author Scott Wetzler claims that “passive-aggressive” men will use sex as a weapon both to control his spouse and to hide his inadequacies.  While the book may actually be a good book (FOR THOSE IN EMOTIONALLY ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS), it is easy (at least for me) to see how people can take the thoughts in it and make it about ALL men instead of men who are emotionally abusive.  It is disgusting to me that people would take something that is a real problem and make it into something to “prove” men are always trying to subjugate women.  In addition to perpetuating the myth that men only want a connection based on sex and when they don’t there is something wrong with them.  Iam sure Wetzler is not the only one who talks about the behaviors of emotionally abusive men but I am not willing to look it up.  I would hope that he wouldn’t want his research to be used to be applied to the behavior of every man every where.

Well fuck, I’m a dick-brained sex addict by definition and if I happen to not be horny then that means I’m a power-tripping abuser as well…

What the actual fuck

Maybe he just didn’t want to fuck you.

Check your feminism OP, I think it’s fucking broken. Women’s rights don’t mean women’s entitlement to other people’s bodies.

Idiot.

and these bitches have the nerve to screech about rape culture and male entitlement